WHEN THE LOVE OF A MAN TOUCHES THE HEART OF A WOMAN, NOTHING ELSE MATTERS

 

• When you read the caption of this piece…
• What really came to your mind?
• I mean what was your reaction?
• How did you take it?
• Why did you react the way you did?
• Who made you react the way you did?
• When did the incident occur?
• Where did it occur?
• What part did you play that led to it?

Please, before proceeding, I still have these questions:

• Did you react POSITIVELY or NEGATIVELY to the assertion?
• Will I be right to say no one but you know your reaction to the caption above?
• If I pause here to allow you discuss your reaction with anybody of your choice…
• How sincere will you be?
• Will there be any reservation in your answer to any of the questions?
• Will you be open, secretive or a mixture of both?

On the incident that led to your reaction…

If I may ask, is it true that it is only you that knows or is aware of your true reaction to the incident when it occurred: one, two, five…10,15 years ago or more, or even less?

Come to think of it, if the incident was hurt or painful, you may have discussed it with the trusted among you then. Same may have occurred if the feeling was one of happiness and joy. It is also possible you did not discuss it with anybody. This speaks volume. Anyway, think…think…thing about it

Now, can you be a bit more specific in addressing this particular one?

Whatever feeling the caption of this piece aroused in you, would you say, as a matter of fact, that the feeling is one of joy and happiness or anger and pain? Remember, only you know the truth.

Those in pain and therefore angered by the caption are already getting agitated, wondering and asking, why all these questions and what is he driving at? Those that embraced the caption from a relaxed mind are more likely to be patient, to flow with the discourse. Whichever category you find yourself, I assure you nobody is on a hot seat here…

Dearies, could you please pause here to look at the caption again?

• Who is likely to be on the defensive, and who is likely to be on the attack?
• Is it those who were hurt by love or those whose love were reciprocated with love? 
  
• While you pause to deliver your answer, please consider this also:
• Between the males and females, who is more likely to feel hurt, then and now?
  
• If you think it is the male, why do you think so?
• If on the contrary you think it is the female, what is your reason(s)?

 Nnabugwu Chizoba (The Charismatic Chizzy),