SIGNS PEDOPHILES AND HEBEPHILES ARE WITH YOU OR CLOSE IN YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD.

By Nnabugwu Chizoba and Osim Jones Usim

NOTE: In case you do not know how to approach Pedophiles and Hebephiles, or in the event that you are one and understand that you need help, which no doubt you need, please contact this platform. We have contact with persons trained to help people with deviant sexual behavior problems and their families. People who sexually molest children need help and can be helped. From our finding most of them want to change, but require specialized help and treatment. Condemning them and doing nothing to free them will do no good to them and the society.

Done with the above, we wish to invite you to travel with us on the journey of the present. Please join us as we take you through the topic of today, which incidentally is centered more on simple indicators that suggest Pedophiles and Hebephiles, are with you or around your neighborhood.

Please reflect on the questions below:

DO YOU KNOW SOMEONE WHO?

• Insists on bathing a child who is old enough to bathe his or herself?
• Arranges to share a bed with a child during an overnight stay?
• Insists on hugging, kissing, tickling, wrestling with or holding a child even when the child does not want this affection?
• Shows an excessive interest in the sexuality of a particular child or teenager?
• Talks repeatedly about the sexual activities or developing body of a child or adolescent?
• Spends most of his/her spare time with children and has little interest in spending time with adults or people their own age?
• Regularly offers to babysit different children?
• Buys children or teens expensive gifts or gives them money for no apparent reason?
• Frequently walks in on children or teens when they are in the bathroom?
• Talks about sexual fantasies involving children and adolescents?
• Makes comments that suggest children and adolescents are interested in sex with adults?
• Encourages secrets in a child?
• Looks at children or adolescent pornography?
• Asks adult partners to dress or act like a Child or teen during sexual activity?
• Often has a “special” child or adolescent friend, which may be a different one from time to time, year in, year out?
• Makes fun of a child or teen’s body parts, calls them sex oriented/induced names?

The above could be signs that the person has a sexual behaviour problem. There is a risk also that the person may sexually, molest a child or adolescent, if not already done so. 

Like beauty that intoxicates both the holder and the beholder, we enjoin you to understand that the success of this self-imposed mandate and campaign of ours lie in frustrating their efforts and liberating them from DEVIANT SEXUAL BEHAVIOR PROBLEMS. Both ways, the society benefits.

Thus, adopting the principle of knowing less and understanding more, we recognize that things are not always what they seem. In this regard we wish to draw your attention to the fact that:

Someone whom you love; who moves in a way that worries or confuses you, one way or another may be beckoning on you indirectly for assistance. The unpalatable behaviour may be a sign that this person needs help. Many people with deviant sexual bahaviour problems wish that someone had asked them what was going on or had told them where to get help before it was too late. 

Rather than sit back to complain and condemn, rise up and do something different. That is why you must as of necessity pay very close attention to your/other peoples’ children as they grow. Nothing on earth will take the place of a bold and well behaved child, one who knows the rules and how to use them to defend himself/herself and others from abuse. Remember the saying “who does nothing for others, obviously never does anything for himself”.